昨晚，我开车回家，载着阿松，他叫我开快快，我就告诉他，不行，我怕我会来不及转弯，撞向大树，怎么办？ 我们只有一个命也。。。
然后，松很好奇的再问：真的吗?我们只有一个命吗？
我也很惊讶，他明白我的意思吗？
忽然，我也了解到他常常在玩games, games 里的人物，动物都有超过一个命，也不奇怪他会误会，我们人只有一个。。。
他又问：蚂蚁呢？有几个命?
: 也是一个。。。
: 死了就怎样？要怎样才会多多命? 如果我们吃饭多多呢？命会多吗？
我也趁机和他说：命不会多，只会长， 你要好好顾你的命呀。。。危险的事情不要做，命会不好。。。
他想了很久，都没出声。
到家后，他问：mummy ，椅子会死吗？
：椅子不用呼吸，所以，它不会死，但是，它会坏。
：哦，坏了就好像死了一样哦。
希望，我和他说的这番话后，他会珍惜他自己。
Friday, April 3, 2009
我的童年
I received an email from a friend... which I would like to share, I am proud and lucky to say that, I have that kind of Childhood....
To All those Born in the 50's , 60's & early '70s...
First, we survived with mothers who had no maids. They cooked /cleaned while taking care of us at the same time.
They took aspirin, candy floss,fizzy drinks, shaved ice with syrups and diabetes was rare. Salt added to Pepsi or Coke was remedy for fever.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets.
As children, we would ride with our parents on bicycles/ motorcycles 2 or 3 together. Richer ones in cars with no seat belts or air bags.
Riding in the back of a private taxi was a special treat.
We drank water from the tap and NOT from a bottle.
We would spend hours in the fields under bright sunlight flying our kites, without worrying about the UV ray which never seem to affect us.
We went to the jungle to catch spiders without worries of Aedes mosquitoes.
5 pebbles (stones) would be a endless game. A ball (tennis ball best) we boys would run like crazy for hours.
We catch guppies in drains / canals and when it rained, we would swim there..
We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually worried about being unhygenic.
We ate salty, very sweet & oily food, candy, bread and real butter and drank very sweet soft drinks, sweet coffee/ tea, ice kacang, but we weren't overweight because..... .
WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, till the streetlights came on.
No one was able to reach us all day. AS WE DIDN'T HAVE HANDPHONES TO BUG US. And we were O.K. AND WE WERE SAFE.
We would spend hours repairing our old bicycles and wooden scooters out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem ..
We did no t have Playstations, X-boxes, Nintendo's, multiple channels on cable TV, DVD movies, no surround sound, no phones, no personal computers, no Internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and we still continued the stunts.
We never had birthday parties till we WERE 21.
We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and just yelled for them!
The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!
Yet this generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!
The past 40 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned
HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!
And YOU are one of them!
CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the government regulated our lives for our own good.
And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.
To All those Born in the 50's , 60's & early '70s...
First, we survived with mothers who had no maids. They cooked /cleaned while taking care of us at the same time.
They took aspirin, candy floss,fizzy drinks, shaved ice with syrups and diabetes was rare. Salt added to Pepsi or Coke was remedy for fever.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets.
As children, we would ride with our parents on bicycles/ motorcycles 2 or 3 together. Richer ones in cars with no seat belts or air bags.
Riding in the back of a private taxi was a special treat.
We drank water from the tap and NOT from a bottle.
We would spend hours in the fields under bright sunlight flying our kites, without worrying about the UV ray which never seem to affect us.
We went to the jungle to catch spiders without worries of Aedes mosquitoes.
5 pebbles (stones) would be a endless game. A ball (tennis ball best) we boys would run like crazy for hours.
We catch guppies in drains / canals and when it rained, we would swim there..
We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually worried about being unhygenic.
We ate salty, very sweet & oily food, candy, bread and real butter and drank very sweet soft drinks, sweet coffee/ tea, ice kacang, but we weren't overweight because..... .
WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!
We would leave home in the morning and play all day, till the streetlights came on.
No one was able to reach us all day. AS WE DIDN'T HAVE HANDPHONES TO BUG US. And we were O.K. AND WE WERE SAFE.
We would spend hours repairing our old bicycles and wooden scooters out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem ..
We did no t have Playstations, X-boxes, Nintendo's, multiple channels on cable TV, DVD movies, no surround sound, no phones, no personal computers, no Internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and we still continued the stunts.
We never had birthday parties till we WERE 21.
We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and just yelled for them!
The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!
Yet this generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!
The past 40 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned
HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!
And YOU are one of them!
CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the government regulated our lives for our own good.
And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.
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